As a pet photographer, you’d think my journey would be all happy, wagging tails and warm, wet noses ready for the camera. But my own dog, Conway, has shown me a different side of the pet world—one where animals can have big feelings, too. Conway, my 5-year-old Golden Retriever and Great Pyrenees mix, came into my life in 2019, and our journey together has forever changed the way I see dogs, their owners, and my role as a pet photographer.
For some dogs, like Conway, new experiences and unfamiliar faces can be overwhelming. I refer to his reactivity as his "big feelings" because, while he’s deeply afraid of the unknown, he’s also the most loyal, affectionate dog you could meet if you’re part of his circle. With Conway, I've learned to better understand, adapt, and work compassionately with animals who might be a bit more guarded or nervous—lessons I now bring into every pet photography session I do.
Learning to Read Canine Body Language
Before Conway began to show signs of reactivity around his first birthday, I never thought about what reactivity truly meant for a dog or their owners. I was the dog lover who wanted to meet every furry friend I saw! But Conway’s journey taught me that not every dog is comfortable with strangers or in crowded, unpredictable settings.
Through working with an incredible trainer to understand Conway’s needs, I learned how to read subtle canine body language cues—skills that are crucial in pet photography. I've become attuned to signs that might indicate discomfort, like a “smiling” tongue-out expression that could mean stress or a wagging tail that’s less a sign of happiness and more a signal of uncertainty. These details allow me to respect each animal’s comfort zone during sessions, and it's rewarding to see them relax when I listen to what they’re telling me.
Choosing the Right Locations for Each Subject
Living with Conway has also made me an expert at finding peaceful, hidden trails and less-frequented parks around Minnesota. Because he prefers spaces with minimal distractions, I’ve developed a list of perfect spots that allow him to enjoy his surroundings without the stress of encountering unfamiliar dogs.
These secluded areas have become my go-to choices for photo sessions. I’ve seen firsthand how serene settings help reactive dogs stay calm and focused, resulting in beautiful, genuine portraits that capture their unique personalities. Fewer distractions mean pets engage more directly with me, and I get to capture their true essence in an environment that feels safe.
Patience as a Pet Photographer
Patience is a must for any pet photographer, but with Conway, I’ve developed an entirely new level of it. When I meet a new animal, I take a calm approach, standing back and allowing the dog to approach me at their own pace. I’ve learned not to rush this step—it’s about building trust and letting them feel comfortable with my presence before we dive into the session.
Rather than diving in with excitement, I take a quieter approach, starting with calm interactions and letting each animal set the pace. Once a dog is ready, we’re off, capturing those spontaneous, candid shots that are possible only when a dog feels safe.
Understanding the Challenges of Reactive Pet Owners
Being Conway’s owner has made me deeply empathetic toward pet parents with reactive, anxious, or shy dogs. I know how difficult it is to work through reactivity, a journey full of time and effort with no promise of a “quick fix.” I also know the discomfort of feeling judged as I work to redirect a barking, lunging 90-pound dog on the edge of a trail. But I also know the relief when someone gives us extra space, acknowledges the struggle, and lets us pass without comment.
When I work with clients who have reactive pets, I’m mindful of the challenges they face, from choosing quiet locations to planning every interaction to ensure their pet feels secure. My goal is to provide a compassionate and understanding environment so that both the pet and their owner feel respected and supported throughout the session.
Unique Techniques to Capture 'Big Feelings'
Conway has taught me several techniques to capture these “big feelings” without overwhelming the pet. I’ve learned to keep my distance with longer lenses, allowing shy or reactive animals to feel unpressured by my presence while still capturing every sweet detail. By creating a calm, non-pressuring atmosphere, I’m able to bring out each dog’s true personality.
I treat each animal as an individual with unique needs and reactions. With Conway’s help, I’ve learned to adjust my techniques on the spot, and it’s a skill I value as I approach each new session.
Conclusion
I hope you enjoyed learning more about how my reactive dog helped shape my pet photography journey. I wouldn’t be the photographer I am today without Conway’s influence. He’s taught me patience, empathy, and the importance of adapting my approach to meet each dog where they are. For those with reactive or sensitive pets, know that beautiful, authentic photos are possible. With Conway’s guidance, I’ve learned how to approach each animal with respect, and I’m here to help capture the love and bond you share with your pets, big feelings and all. Reach out today if you'd like to discuss the possibility of a photo session with your pet, big feelings and all.
Here's a glimpse of Conway's life (so far) in order (sort of, not really) from most recent to long ago... through my eyes as not only a pet photographer, but his dog mom, best friend, and the person responsible for his mental health.
About Scruff Life Photography
Hi, I'm Lauren! I'm a Minnesota-based pet photographer specializing in capturing the bond between people and their pets. I understand that pets are important family members and I am here to capture those special moments you will treasure for a lifetime. Whether you just added a pet to the family or they've been there for as long as you can remember, it's never a bad time for updated professional photos! Reach out today to schedule your pet photo session with Scruff Life Photography!
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